My fiancé recently confessed to me that he accidentally slept with my bridesmaid-to-be when they met at a friend’s party.They were both drunk.
I’ve spoken to the two of them separately and I’m trying very hard to forgive them but it has not been easy and I’m tempted to call off the marriage.
Some friends have asked me to forgive them and get married. What do you think? I love him very much.
Baaba, Sakumono
Dear Baaba,
The man has come clean hoping that you would forgive him, so why are you being hard?
I know it is a very difficult situation to be betrayed by your fiancé and bridesmaid-to-be. Forgive him if you love him. Give him a chance to make it up to you. Life is too short to hold grudges.
Don’t call off the marriage. If it would please you to drop your bridesmaid then do just that. However, talk to him about booze since it looks like it gets him into trouble.
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Leroy Jackson
USA Baaba, My Dear,
A boozer will always pull down ladies undies, he is caught now and dry earth knowns how many times he has done that.
The call is yours, perhaps beside pulling down undies, he is also good in taking care of his responsibilities, give him a break.
immanuel boateng
United States If you can, please forgive him. but in order to save yourself the trouble of second-guessing what's transpiring between your man and the lady in the future, it's better to quit now.
Ato
London Its a mixed blessing. You have a sneak prview of what the future is gonna look like. If you cant trust him with your bridesmaid, who else could you trust him with.Yes people do change but for better or for worse. To be forewarned is to be forearmed. It might be painful but make a bold decision; you might put the wedding on hold and take a time out to really think. Be bold, objective, fair and practical. Experience shows that a dangling rod rarely behaves itself.
Gideon Kwame
East legon Leave him and see whether you will get a husband like him in your life,ladies of today when you tell them the truth they then take you like a fool,so for me???
Kwame Boat
London Baaba,
If you marry him, that'll be the worst mistake of your life.
If he loves you, he would have controlled himself, inspite his condition or state of mind.
If he was drunk, then the chances are he committed the act without protecting himself. This means, potentially, he's picked up some deadly virus from your so called bridesmaid.
Life is too short and this is why you shouldn't allow anyone to take you for a ride.
